Hi connectix,
When switching a relay via down-link messages please keep in mind the limitation of max 10 down-link messages per day. For more information see this link.
I have updated the topic title for the correct name of the board: TTGO LoRa32 V2.1.
TTGO-PAXCOUNTER-LoRa32-V2.1 is a (confusing) marketing name but not the name of the board.